want2flyy
Confused about dryer sheets
My observations at 48 years old Early Retired. I try to keep a low profile and not disclose anything but yet I am constantly reminded..
1. Contractors arrive and suddenly (because of the neighborhood's perceived wealth appearance) the price increases 20%.
2. I have heard this based on assumptions (not me divulging) "Retired? wow, you must have plenty of money"
3. Along with that.." What do you care about the cost? You have plenty of money"..(mostly contractors and tenants)
4. Long time "friends" have disappeared.
5. Relatives outside my DW and kids, all of a sudden have a crisis and a need but love to criticize and state "What do you care? We aren't as "lucky" as you"..(LOL "luck"-Yes the leprechaun of money knocked on my door and gave it all to me)
6. Relatives only talk not listen. They look for an opportunity to interject the crisis or need for money;sometimes trying to manipulate so I can bring it up for them!
7.No more donating...as a result: disappointment and getting burned. (I am not talking about charity as in volunteering).
I am open to any thoughts, suggestions, support or similar stories..as I adjust to retirement for me and my family; and learn lessons the hard way
1. Contractors arrive and suddenly (because of the neighborhood's perceived wealth appearance) the price increases 20%.
2. I have heard this based on assumptions (not me divulging) "Retired? wow, you must have plenty of money"
3. Along with that.." What do you care about the cost? You have plenty of money"..(mostly contractors and tenants)
4. Long time "friends" have disappeared.
5. Relatives outside my DW and kids, all of a sudden have a crisis and a need but love to criticize and state "What do you care? We aren't as "lucky" as you"..(LOL "luck"-Yes the leprechaun of money knocked on my door and gave it all to me)
6. Relatives only talk not listen. They look for an opportunity to interject the crisis or need for money;sometimes trying to manipulate so I can bring it up for them!
7.No more donating...as a result: disappointment and getting burned. (I am not talking about charity as in volunteering).
I am open to any thoughts, suggestions, support or similar stories..as I adjust to retirement for me and my family; and learn lessons the hard way
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