Badatmath, someone mentioned you are in Arizona. If you are in the Phoenix area the canals can be either a great place to walk or a dodgy one depending on what part of the city you're in. If you can't find a walking partner because you walk long stretches, I would recommend hiking in one of the preserves. Depending on where you are in the valley, there are several great preserves on the edges. Or if you are more central there is always Phoenix Mountain Preserve or Papago Park. Generally, there are enough people on the trails at almost any given time that you'll feel safe. Panhandling is very unlikely, in my experience. Unfortunately it may be less convenient for you and you'll likely have to drive.
Yeah it is a good idea but I will have to think about it as I don't have time to drive every day. And gas has gone up like 70 cents a gallon in a week . . . it sucks. Rattlesnakes are out in force too so I have heard though on a populated trail they'd probably hide.
As an aside, if anyone is familiar with Camelback I refuse to hike it as I see stupid hikers get helicopter rescues every year. . . always vowed never to be one. 99.5% of the time it is their own damn fault for taking no water and hiking in flip flops. . . but still.
I coordinated and then attended a self-defense class for a club I'm in. The instructor said that if someone is approaching you in a way or a situation that makes you uncomfortable, loudly and firmly saying "Stay Back!" can be a good deterrent. They don't want the attention. Sure, you might offend some people who mean no harm, but they should understand the situation you are in. It's intended more for people you think may do you harm rather than just ask for money, but you don't really know what they are going to do when they get close.
We also learned some self defense moves. The instructor taught Krav Maga.
I'd recommend the OP find a self-defense class for women. A good one won't be just physical defense, but will start with how to avoid or head off a bad situation.
This is a good idea. I looked a year or so ago and one was running like $600 and it seemed a bit much. But I'm sure there are others too.
If you were around here, I would walk with you. I walk roughly 5 miles per day, every day and most of the time, alone or with my dog. I also walk with my friend group on Wednesday at 7 PM for another two miles.
Some of my walking buddies go to the closed in mall daily, but I like the outdoors.
Yeah I'd appreciate the escort if you were! I was even thinking today I'd like to try my own personal 13.1 (half marathon and wondering if i could get anyone local to walk the last 4 hardest miles with me). Never done one so IDK how hard they are but no "real" races here until fall.
I wonder if a good deterrent to panhandlers could be as simple as carrying around a small piece of cardboard with something written on it.
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I barely left the house today as I have a fever.
Going to have to go get a Covid test I guess as all my expired ones have expired again. I don't feel terrible but definitely off my game and don't want to make others sick. I think I'm going to miss an doctors appointment Thursday if I do though. . . takes months to get back on the schedule.
Ugh. I am hoping I feel better tomorrow. I haven't really been in any crowds so no idea where I'd have picked up much of anything. I go to stores when its slow and haven't eaten out or anything. I"m not deliberately avoiding going out for covid reasons but its cheaper to eat at home and I've been on a diet so easier to control the meager amount of food I get as a smallish old lady with no muscles and hypothyroid. But I only have 3 lbs left
. And yes I realize no one will notice those but me. I just aim to keep my promise to myself. In the end I need to add some muscle which will probably add them back which is fine.
Right now I want to get under my covers and whine a little (mentally).