tangomonster
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Okay, I know this is none of my business and that there's more important things to worry about than what people do with their bridal gowns after the fact. But the newest fad of trashing a wedding gown (setting it on fire, ripping it to shreds, getting it dirty---while photographing the whole thing) just strikes me as decadent, deviant, and disturbing on so many levels.
First of all, there are so many people around the world and in the US who would love a beautiful bridal gown and can't afford one. Why can't these people donate the dress instead of trashing it? Or sell it, thus recouping some of the wedding costs?
Then there's the part where they keep the wedding going and the focus on themselves by getting photographed doing it---yet more consumerism, this time of post-wedding professional photos.
But mostly it's just that I don't get the sentiment behind it. I could see where someone could want to destroy their wedding gown after a bitter divorce. But why, after a few months, of spending all the money and time to get the gown of their dreams, why is it suddenly cute/ironic/fashionable to destroy it? Just a few months before, they had bought into the whole wedding consumer culture thing with a fancy wedding and gown. Maybe some of them are let down with marriage itself, just wrapped up in the wedding production and being princess for the day and then dealing with the mundane married life that they take their disappointment out on the dress!
Here's more info on this lovely trend:
Wedding trashers | Salon Life
Does anyone else think this is awful?
First of all, there are so many people around the world and in the US who would love a beautiful bridal gown and can't afford one. Why can't these people donate the dress instead of trashing it? Or sell it, thus recouping some of the wedding costs?
Then there's the part where they keep the wedding going and the focus on themselves by getting photographed doing it---yet more consumerism, this time of post-wedding professional photos.
But mostly it's just that I don't get the sentiment behind it. I could see where someone could want to destroy their wedding gown after a bitter divorce. But why, after a few months, of spending all the money and time to get the gown of their dreams, why is it suddenly cute/ironic/fashionable to destroy it? Just a few months before, they had bought into the whole wedding consumer culture thing with a fancy wedding and gown. Maybe some of them are let down with marriage itself, just wrapped up in the wedding production and being princess for the day and then dealing with the mundane married life that they take their disappointment out on the dress!
Here's more info on this lovely trend:
Wedding trashers | Salon Life
Does anyone else think this is awful?