As many may know, youth sports in today's day and age has really gotten out of control. I have a child who is really into soccer and plays on a "premier" team that does a fair amount of travel. This of course significantly raises the cost of participation.
We are approaching tryout season for the next year and I'm having serious doubts as to whether we should continue to support his development at this level. As background, this past year cost us just over $4K all in (fees, equipment, travel, etc). This may not be a lot for some families, but for us it is pretty significant. Not to mention the time investment.
A part of me feels guilty about not supporting him 100% no matter what the cost. Truth is, we can afford it, I just have problems with it given my "frugal" ways and my own personal upbringing where my parents didn't pay anything for my sport endeavors, of which, there were many.
I know this is a first world problem and mostly for the mid- to upper middle class, but I guess I'm just needing to vent as I feel my emotional arm is being twisted on this matter.
We are approaching tryout season for the next year and I'm having serious doubts as to whether we should continue to support his development at this level. As background, this past year cost us just over $4K all in (fees, equipment, travel, etc). This may not be a lot for some families, but for us it is pretty significant. Not to mention the time investment.
A part of me feels guilty about not supporting him 100% no matter what the cost. Truth is, we can afford it, I just have problems with it given my "frugal" ways and my own personal upbringing where my parents didn't pay anything for my sport endeavors, of which, there were many.
I know this is a first world problem and mostly for the mid- to upper middle class, but I guess I'm just needing to vent as I feel my emotional arm is being twisted on this matter.