Wow, I would have been a little irritated at this if the amounts of money involved were significant.
Boy this puts a different spin on this whole thing. That would really annoy me!
I was annoyed. But when I tried to push back, DW found herself in the line of fire. So, for her sake, I shut my mouth and ponied up the money. The money involved was significant for us at the time but, in the grand scheme of things, it was only a small price to pay to keep the peace.