Nords said:I don't have a solution to the food situation, except to avoid the convenience foods advertised on TV. Good luck with that.
As for clothes/toys, it's Goodwill & garage sales. Our kid was nine years old before her (childless) uncle & aunt took her to Toys'R'Us for her birthday. It was her first visit inside a full-blown retail toystore and it's a good thing she knew what she wanted before she went in the doors.
Nearly four years later she still has that stupid electronic Techno dog.... I wonder what it'd "fetch" on eBay.
We waste milk, fresh fruit, bread and some other staples on occasion because my wife and I can't eat/drink it before it goes bad. The food that would otherwise go to waste will now be diverted from the trash can to the baby.
I was watching some cartoons targeted towards kids, and I was amazed/scared by all the convenience food crap marketed to kids. Commercial after commercial of sweet/salty/lickable goodness that comes individually packaged at a retailer near you. I will resist the temptation as long as possible!!!
I plan on paying a fair (from my point of view) allowance to the kid. Then, if she wants a Techno Dog (or whatever is hot), she can buy it with her own money. She can waste it if she likes! When she says, "Daddy, please! Daddy, please! Can I have this and this and this and this and this and this... Sally and Sarah and Jessica at school all have these!!!" I can say, sure. Buy whatever your money will allow you to buy. I'll also keep the toy section of Walmart a secret from her as long as humanly possible.
This teaches responsible consumerism and math skills at the same time.
You may be able to tell that this is my first kid and I have no idea what it will really be like having a child in the toy store. My plan works perfectly in theory...