Carpediem
Full time employment: Posting here.
- Joined
- Aug 26, 2016
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Yes right! Half the house, half my pension, alimony for 10 years plus half our assets (except for her inheritance that she got 100%). I gently told my sons about it over several years. They eventually "got" it.
I could have written the exact same thing, including the inheritance part, except my alimony is 8 1/2 years.
Funny story - At the height of our divorce "negotiations", I was worn out emotionally and wanted it to be done so I agreed to 12 years with one stipulation - no COLA. The EX wouldn't agree to the stipulation so it all fell apart. I then fired my incompetent attorney and hired badazz attorney. We settled at 8 years alimony shortly thereafter. The EX lost 4 years alimony by rejecting the COLA stipulation.