I'm curious how people on here feel about budgets. Do you keep a budget for everything in general or do you break it down to specific categories like food, travel, hobbies, etc?
I guess you could say that I have a budget in retrospect. I have a general idea of what my spending goals are. Each month I tally up what I have spent in about two dozen categories. If I have been spending too much, then I look at where it went and go from there.
bank5 said:
Does anyone use a budget not for cutting back on spending, but to know when to pull the trigger on desired items? For example, "I'm $1,000 under budget this month so I can buy that new computer I've been wanting"
Well, kind of? I might look at what I have been spending and say, "I had to spend $5,000 fixing up hurricane damage last month, and the month before I had that $1,500 in dental work and my TV broke so I bought a $2,000 TV... Maybe I'll just wait a few months before buying that new computer I've been wanting since my old one is still usable."
But I don't look at low spending months and say, "Oh goodie! I should figure out something to buy with all this extra money!"
bank5 said:
If you don't keep a budget, do you LBYM and simply try to minimize all expenses?
Yes, I challenge myself to spend no more than $X/week on average. Every day I log into my bank accounts and figure out how I am doing on that. It makes me feel really happy when my spending is in line, and that motivates me to spend less.
I don't really minimize ALL expenses, because I need to feel like I can afford something meaningless and unnecessary now and then (like that $25 crystal ball). But I have a figure in mind as a maximum to spend on that sort of thing. If I am depressed and want to go buy a treat for myself, I think about how I am doing in reaching my goals. Sometimes that is enough to dissuade me from spending more, but sometimes not. People are human and at times I engage in shopping therapy when I am not doing that well in reaching my savings goals. But if I do, then I work harder at LBYM to make up for that.
To summarize: What works best for me is to have goals, rather than restrictions. Reaching goals makes me happy and that is positive reinforcement for LBYM'ing. Having a goal reminds me that I am doing this to make ME happy, not somebody else.