Ed_The_Gypsy
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Most of us are prepared to handle our own financial affairs for as long as we can. But what then? I have been wondering about this in an unfocused way and would like your comments.
My sister handled my father's finances for the last 10-15 years of his life. He was mentally able most of that time, but his vision failed (this gives me the heebie-jeebies). His assets were simple by then and he had his taxes done for him (not well all the time, it turned out, but my sister fixed that). My sister lived relatively near by and was a hero for all that she did. I remember vividly that there were many folks in the retirement home who never had visitors, whose families were far away or estranged or none. I wondered who took care of them.
Looking forward, it is very likely that my wife and I may be very far (perhaps VERY, VERY far) from our children when we cannot live independently anymore. They may move around, too, so it may not be reasonable to assume that we can be nearby when our wheels come off.
How would one plan for this case? I can think of some possibilities from family experiences, but they have all been easy situations (helpful children, honest family friend, etc.).
I suppose that it comes down to relying on family, eventually.
But what if you can't?
Your comments, please?
Ed
My sister handled my father's finances for the last 10-15 years of his life. He was mentally able most of that time, but his vision failed (this gives me the heebie-jeebies). His assets were simple by then and he had his taxes done for him (not well all the time, it turned out, but my sister fixed that). My sister lived relatively near by and was a hero for all that she did. I remember vividly that there were many folks in the retirement home who never had visitors, whose families were far away or estranged or none. I wondered who took care of them.
Looking forward, it is very likely that my wife and I may be very far (perhaps VERY, VERY far) from our children when we cannot live independently anymore. They may move around, too, so it may not be reasonable to assume that we can be nearby when our wheels come off.
How would one plan for this case? I can think of some possibilities from family experiences, but they have all been easy situations (helpful children, honest family friend, etc.).
I suppose that it comes down to relying on family, eventually.
But what if you can't?
Your comments, please?
Ed