ivinsfan
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Some of the comments here really surprise me, there are lots of things about being grownup that aren't too "enjoyable", like cleaning bathrooms, doing laundry, grocery shopping yet to be a competent adult you have to do them. Handling money is no different and money is vital to everyone.
It's certainly okay for one spouse to take the lead in finance matters, but I don't understand people saying they should get a pass on learning things because they" don't really care or aren't really into it"....
honestly if I had a spouse that was "terrified" of having to pay the monthly bills, that would be the first thing I would work on.If they don't want to do it every month fine, but they should know how.
An older retired farmer neighbor had his wife pass away. Every single morning he would call his adult daughter to drive to his house and make his coffee. No matter how many times she showed him the way to make coffee, he always said it was too hard and he didn't want to bother learning how. This was in the days before coffee timers were around, after about 7 months he found a new wife to make his coffee and do everything else for him.
It's certainly okay for one spouse to take the lead in finance matters, but I don't understand people saying they should get a pass on learning things because they" don't really care or aren't really into it"....
honestly if I had a spouse that was "terrified" of having to pay the monthly bills, that would be the first thing I would work on.If they don't want to do it every month fine, but they should know how.
An older retired farmer neighbor had his wife pass away. Every single morning he would call his adult daughter to drive to his house and make his coffee. No matter how many times she showed him the way to make coffee, he always said it was too hard and he didn't want to bother learning how. This was in the days before coffee timers were around, after about 7 months he found a new wife to make his coffee and do everything else for him.