audreyh1
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You are very welcome. I'm glad it helped you. I think it really took me 2 or 3 years to get used to not having a regular paycheck. There was definitely some pervasive level of unease at first and I remember checking my investments more frequently. Of course it didn't help that we were going through the 2000-2002 downturn at the time!We are 62.5 and recently “nudged out” . My DH planned on 65, but life had other plans. We have saved but haven’t been quite as “lucky”. However, we are in pretty okay shape. “Living off the portfolio” was better to read about than actually being confronted with the reality. After years of the dependable paycheck and benefits….it feels like jumping over the cliff – even with a $42k pension backstop, paid house, our kids through college with no loans, and today $.9 mil in retirement savings. Our philosophy is similar to yours and Otar’s. However, it is much more comforting as we embark on this new phase of our life to read of your personal experience.
But every time I checked, it seemed like the plan was operating as intended, we had plenty of cash set aside for short term needs, and I'd settle back down.
Then after about 2 or so years I just got used to it. The unease and any need to frequently "check" went away. I don't even think about it that often any more - even during the recent bear market which was WAY WORSE than what happened in 2000-2002.
I suppose that means I'm "seasoned" ?
Audrey
P.S. - No, I didn't revert to Dawg52's "meds" either !