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I'm just about in the same situation. Single, 56 and 600K. It is not where I wanted to be financially when I retired, but life got in the way a couple of years ago and that cost me a good portion of my assets.
However, even though I cannot spend what I used to on the frivolties of life, I would rather go out into the garage and hang myself than go back to my old job. I turned down a chance to contract back to them solely based on the value I place on my sanity. I may have to find a part time job at some point, but it will be for the relief of not watching my nest egg dwindle in a down market, rather than thinking I really have to. I need $1400 a month to make it, I have been spending about $1800 average due to travel and having started to date. Be aware that should you find someone you wish to partner with, it can quickly impact your monthly expenditures. I used to buy a tank of gas every couple of months, now it is two or three time a month. I have been retired 14 months. |
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The condo I just bought is $50/ sq. ft. and everyone has been saying how much they like it. $2000/mo would be a raise for me even with health ins. costs and a mortgage.
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$50/sq. ft. is very nice. I am hoping to ER to southern Missouri, where housing is cheaper, too. ![]() Your insurance will probably become more expensive once you are over 50. But as I recall, you are young. By then maybe we will have some sort of nationalized health care.
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I don't think a 6%, sorta indexed for inflation, locked in return with your flexibility and capital gone to be all that good. I don't think it is a fair comparison to say "it's more that the 4% SWR." With the 4% SWR, your capital is always there for you to deplete for LTC or gifting prior to death. Any left is a benefit to your heirs. If you are willing to take the credit risk of a single insurance company, you can still get the 7 to 12% available in preferreds and your capital is still available.
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You haven't posted anything about any FIRECalc runs you might have made. If you have I must have missed them. A decent run will tell you your probability of success. As others have posted, there are people living on far less than $2K/month. I have no doubt that without DW I could be satisfied with that amount of money if I was so limited. My youngest child just got out of college and she was spending about $14K/year and that included about $8K in college tuition and fees. She had a ratty car. I covered her medical but that was all. Even if she had to buy her own medical it still wouldn't have run her cost above $24K/year. You can certainly do it but you may have lifestyle choices to make you otherwise might not like. That's where FIRECalc comes in. Really chew on your budget. Give yourself some room to have some free cash. Consider periodic low stress, part-time gigs for a little extra cash. If you are so inclined, some companies will give part-timers medical coverage with as little time as 20 hrs/wk.
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Shelter is typically the largest budget item. That would include the rent or mortgage or lost opportunity cost if paid for in cash. Utilities, taxes, maintenance are also there. Right now our "shelter" costs are over half of our basic living expenses.
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I know that I will be spending less on shelter in Missouri than I am presently spending on it. I am not sure what I will do with the excess, though - - I am used to living the way I live. I suppose that something will come to mind.
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For clarification, the $1400 I need per month does not include taxes, and I do have medical insurance paid. My mortgage is $729. If I spend a little above the $1400 per month, and then figure in taxes, I am right at your $2000 limit.
As things are today, in 6 years, I'll be mortgage free and able to pick up SS if I need it. My big panic is that the house may need to be refinanced. The ex's name is still on the low interest rate mortgage. I am fixing it up to sell, and I hope the equity will allow me to purchase a home in a different location mortgage free. If I cannot get the amount out of it I want, I will stay. This is doable, but you have to value your freedom over new cars, nights out, etc.. |
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Here's an extreme opinion, but an honest one nonetheless:
I think that within the next few years we will see in this country a significant move toward a socialistic economy. In my view, such a trend is inevitable because the vast majority of individuals approaching retirement have done nothing at all to plan for their future, and the relatively small proportion that have are woefully short in terms of what would realistically be needed to maintain even a modest standard of living in retirement. In my view, the move toward socialism is also inevitable because although the younger generation may proclaim their opposition to paying anything toward the support of the "boomers," they--above all--are constitutionally unfit to function in anything less than a socialistic environment, having been coddled and supported all their lives. So although in principle I continue to believe in the virtue of self-responsibility, on a purely practical level I'm not sure there's a lot of benefit to amassing several million in assets that most likely will be taxed away in the interest of providing something for everyone. So the purely utilitarian answer, in my view, is to aim for the mean. |
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If I bribe the judges, you think I could get me one of them there certificates?
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You know what? Emilylynn said what I've been thinking regarding the socialist economy business for a mightly long time. And, it very nearly scares the daylights out of me. I pray that America doesn't end up that way. I still believe in personal responsibility and consequences/reaping what we sow. As a nation, if we say we believe in personal responsibility, then we have to be strong enough to accept watching some (maybe ourselves) fall through the cracks. Are we that strong (am I?)? Don't know, but expect to find out within the next few years because a point will come when the folks talented enough or bright enough or lucky enough to make a really good living are going to get tired of having to support those who couldn't/wouldn't/didn't prepare. I know this sounds all gloom and doom; maybe I got up on the wrong side of the bed this morning. Or maybe it's because a friend from childhood who is always unemployed (one excuse or another) and married to a janitor was just complaining about their meager standard of living. Now if an unemployment check and cleaning up an office building is all you aspire to, why would you expect to enjoy a very comfortable lifestyle? Why should I (or anyone) work night and day to fund someone else's expenses? Okay, getting off soapbox now...sorry for the rant.
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Maybe I'm naive but in this day and age I really don't think dating should cost a lot . I traditionally think the guy should still pay for the first date or two but after that it should be 50 /50 . So even if the woman feels odd paying for dinner she should invite the guy over for a cooked dinner or if she doesn't cook chinese take out is always good . . Dating should be fun and not financially troublesome . |
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