Hello From California
Hello Peeps
Thanks for the opportunity to be here. I am approaching retirement. A lower income retirement with a schizophrenic son and a husband who is not overly healthy. He is 7.5 yrs older. I need to ensure we spend as much time as possible together.
Our 32 year old son was running/exercising and working for Apple. He owned a Condo. He got moved up 2-3x after College. Knowing he had schizophrenia, we felt he was beating the disease. His strict diet and exercise regime, his choice to get a degree in Exercise Science, he would beat it. He grew up with an Uncle with Schizophrenia so he was aware. Yet he was slowly loosing the battle since he graduated high school. Got a Bachelors degree. A strict Diet and exercise warded it off for a decade+
He is alive but not the same person. He lost the Condo he owned...moved in with us after getting arrested. Was in jail over a year, un-medicated. Almost died sent to ER after being forced drugged. It was horrific. He got into subsidized housing. With 100K in his 401k, it wasn't enough $ to buy a Condo. Prices really escalated here in California. So he chose subsidized housing.
We then bought a garage on 3 acres. Remodeled it, it's beautiful!! Living area is upstairs, no plumbing, just a compost toilet & portable sink/water in the bathroom. This is illegal to live in a garage but it keeps property taxes lower. It really doesn't look much like a garage with the logs. The pond is very clean due to snow run-off, good trout fishing. It's piped into our outdoor kitchen & bath. We could not afford to buy a home anywhere near here. You do what you need to do.
Outside we have a 10x12 beautiful outdoor kitchen area and an outdoor bath/shower, both have plumbing. We host parties there, game nights, etc. A nice place to gather, people go upstairs in the garage too to hang out. We also have 3 very nice Greenhouses to grow food in retirement. We live there 3/4 of the year. There is also a garage of the same size. Our son comes to spend the night with us at the "garage/home" 1x a week.
3.5 months a year in winter, we stay with our son 100% of the time at his apartment.
We pay $750 a month for the subsidized apartment+ $250 prop tax for the garage. $40 for my retiree health plan at age 60. In Retirement, I'll work 60+ hrs a wk during the Tourist Season only, hopefully until I drop dead
Right now, I work one 42 hr shift per week. Paid to sleep about 10 hrs a night. Very low stress job which includes meals.
Hubby's had issues breathing since I've known him-since age 23. He's on a BPAP breathing assist at night. He works seasonally bringing in about 20K a year thru his business. I've generally only worked half time, otherwise I go in a tailspin due to stress. Learned to cycle hard 3 days a week and work 4 days a week. I'm bi-polar. they say, but it's MUCH better now.
After healthcare costs are paid for, we will live off of 138% of the Federal Poverty level in retirement. This means an insurance company will NOT deny hubby treatment or postpone treatment since he will qualify for Medicaid if need be. Medicaid just pays it. Except in Summer because I am working earning too much $. Nothing's perfect yet I want him around for as long as possible
Luckily our interests are very humble-gardening, cycling, re-habing wild birds, church, bible study and volunteering. We like to go away 2 weekends a year to camp on the ocean or stay in a Hostel there. We have an older RV we keep parked at the "garage/home" We E-Bike most places, use the E-Car (2022 Chevy Bolt) about 1x a wk. Our DIY Solar system powers our transportation most of the year. It also lowers our utility bills. We do not pay homeowners insurance, water, and have very inexpensive food costs. Hubby has no health insurance at the moment but will be eligible for Medicare in 2.5 yrs
Retirement will be much different than I ever anticipated. Thank GOD I am a Christian. Life is so much easier realizing it's imperative to be appreciative for what we have though it's nothing compared to others here.
By 3 yrs, I'll have 40K in cash saved and my IRA should be around 100K-$125K. It's 100% invested in the S&P. However, that IRA is for me. I will need to survive after my husband dies and I don't want to live in subsidized housing. We are only there to monitor our son. Thanks for the opportunity to be here
Hello Peeps
Thanks for the opportunity to be here. I am approaching retirement. A lower income retirement with a schizophrenic son and a husband who is not overly healthy. He is 7.5 yrs older. I need to ensure we spend as much time as possible together.
Our 32 year old son was running/exercising and working for Apple. He owned a Condo. He got moved up 2-3x after College. Knowing he had schizophrenia, we felt he was beating the disease. His strict diet and exercise regime, his choice to get a degree in Exercise Science, he would beat it. He grew up with an Uncle with Schizophrenia so he was aware. Yet he was slowly loosing the battle since he graduated high school. Got a Bachelors degree. A strict Diet and exercise warded it off for a decade+
He is alive but not the same person. He lost the Condo he owned...moved in with us after getting arrested. Was in jail over a year, un-medicated. Almost died sent to ER after being forced drugged. It was horrific. He got into subsidized housing. With 100K in his 401k, it wasn't enough $ to buy a Condo. Prices really escalated here in California. So he chose subsidized housing.
We then bought a garage on 3 acres. Remodeled it, it's beautiful!! Living area is upstairs, no plumbing, just a compost toilet & portable sink/water in the bathroom. This is illegal to live in a garage but it keeps property taxes lower. It really doesn't look much like a garage with the logs. The pond is very clean due to snow run-off, good trout fishing. It's piped into our outdoor kitchen & bath. We could not afford to buy a home anywhere near here. You do what you need to do.
Outside we have a 10x12 beautiful outdoor kitchen area and an outdoor bath/shower, both have plumbing. We host parties there, game nights, etc. A nice place to gather, people go upstairs in the garage too to hang out. We also have 3 very nice Greenhouses to grow food in retirement. We live there 3/4 of the year. There is also a garage of the same size. Our son comes to spend the night with us at the "garage/home" 1x a week.
3.5 months a year in winter, we stay with our son 100% of the time at his apartment.
We pay $750 a month for the subsidized apartment+ $250 prop tax for the garage. $40 for my retiree health plan at age 60. In Retirement, I'll work 60+ hrs a wk during the Tourist Season only, hopefully until I drop dead
Right now, I work one 42 hr shift per week. Paid to sleep about 10 hrs a night. Very low stress job which includes meals.
Hubby's had issues breathing since I've known him-since age 23. He's on a BPAP breathing assist at night. He works seasonally bringing in about 20K a year thru his business. I've generally only worked half time, otherwise I go in a tailspin due to stress. Learned to cycle hard 3 days a week and work 4 days a week. I'm bi-polar. they say, but it's MUCH better now.
After healthcare costs are paid for, we will live off of 138% of the Federal Poverty level in retirement. This means an insurance company will NOT deny hubby treatment or postpone treatment since he will qualify for Medicaid if need be. Medicaid just pays it. Except in Summer because I am working earning too much $. Nothing's perfect yet I want him around for as long as possible
Luckily our interests are very humble-gardening, cycling, re-habing wild birds, church, bible study and volunteering. We like to go away 2 weekends a year to camp on the ocean or stay in a Hostel there. We have an older RV we keep parked at the "garage/home" We E-Bike most places, use the E-Car (2022 Chevy Bolt) about 1x a wk. Our DIY Solar system powers our transportation most of the year. It also lowers our utility bills. We do not pay homeowners insurance, water, and have very inexpensive food costs. Hubby has no health insurance at the moment but will be eligible for Medicare in 2.5 yrs
Retirement will be much different than I ever anticipated. Thank GOD I am a Christian. Life is so much easier realizing it's imperative to be appreciative for what we have though it's nothing compared to others here.
By 3 yrs, I'll have 40K in cash saved and my IRA should be around 100K-$125K. It's 100% invested in the S&P. However, that IRA is for me. I will need to survive after my husband dies and I don't want to live in subsidized housing. We are only there to monitor our son. Thanks for the opportunity to be here
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