How do you know losing the house is "bad" in the bigger scheme of things?
Another choice to add to your list:
Let the course of natural consequences give him yet another chance to learn - and a motivation grow up and change his behavior.
Think of the lost of equity as "tuition." Some people require more tuition than others to "get it".
Having said that, I would like to acknowledge that it is very hard, but likely very necessary, for you to keep repeating, "I'm sorry you are going through this, but I can't help you financially."
Kindest regards.
Another choice to add to your list:
Let the course of natural consequences give him yet another chance to learn - and a motivation grow up and change his behavior.
Think of the lost of equity as "tuition." Some people require more tuition than others to "get it".
Having said that, I would like to acknowledge that it is very hard, but likely very necessary, for you to keep repeating, "I'm sorry you are going through this, but I can't help you financially."
Kindest regards.