Rich_by_the_Bay
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Nords said:If they'd had an inheritance to pass on, would you have needed it or even wanted it?
It's a fair question, but not so simple, maybe. I would have wanted the resources there first and foremost so they could have avoided the worry and embarassment of having to turn to us for help (no matter how comfortable and guilt-free we tried to structure it). But also, as the first generation in our family to jump ahead of a very modest income, I would love to leave my kids and grandkids with enough to at least make good lifestyle and educations a likelihood. We will probably be just fine for our own retirement but I've no idea how much will be left for the kids.
A final ironic post script on my parents' situation is that about a year after they died, we received a $30K settlement on a class action lawsuit against my dad's former employer. Brother and I shared it, wishing it could have come a couple of years sooner. We agreed that the folks would have been pleased to know that we were able to use this money -- covered a year of college for my son.