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The best tool is self discipline. The best device is DIY. The best items are freebies. The best equipment is our body; with good care, it will last a long time and save tons of money.
Another suggestion is to choose your hobbies wisely, with an eye to finding something you enjoy that is LBYM.
A few examples come to mind:
I have friends with expensive tastes in cars and boats (and feel the need to swap these out every few years). Not LBYM.
I have other friends who do arts and crafts of all types. Some of them are very talented, but there's really little/no money in selling anything they make, and cost of classes and the materials and inventory they keep on-hand to do these things boggles my mind. Not LBYM.
I have other friends who love to cook and their hobby is cooking. This can be LBYM.
I have other friends who enjoy home repairs and home remodeling. This is usually LBYM.
Even your choice of a healthy sports activity can either suck-up money (like downhill skiing) or be relatively inexpensive (like walking, bicycling).
When I first got the idea that RE was a possibility, I decided to make FIRE my hobby. I gave up all the other time-wasting, money-sucking hobbies that I used to do just to relieve the stress and dissatisfaction of a mega-corp job.
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This one may be controversial - we deliberately drifted away from just a few big spender friends in the past five years or so, mostly one couple. Folks who were more interested in bigger houses, more expensive cars, boats, vacations, restaurants, latest fashions/fads, etc. We started to realize most of their conversation centered around their possessions. Used to be important to me to be connected in that way, but not anymore. Sadly, they're still trying to buy their happiness, thankfully we realized it can't be done years ago. 'The richer your friends, the more it will cost you.'
Maybe we could just put the coffee beans in the pressure cooker.W2R said:For example, someone might say "buy a $200 Keurig coffemaker to save money instead of buying Starbucks!" Yes, that would save a little money, but wouldn't it be even cheaper (if you had no coffeemaker) to buy instant coffee and heat the water in the microwave that you already have?
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The best tool is self discipline. The best device is DIY.
All very interesting posts and ideas, but I don't necessarily agree with those LBYM. I worked my a** off all my life, skimped and saved because that was how I was brought up. When I was in college I got $10 a week spending money. Give me a break! I was able to retire at 52 and to do that I really had to watch the spending. A few years back we started making some ground on investments. I decided last year that we were going to spend the money as we went and let the chips fall where they may. We still would be considered conservative people but I'm not interested in saving money. Our income is about $50000/yr and we spend every dime. A lot goes into our house which is DW's pride and joy. We hire everything done including window washing, lawn mowing, shrub trimming, various repairs and have a cleaning lady twice a month. We do our own cleaning in between. DW cooks quite a bit but we eat out once a day on average, either breakfast or lunch and dinner about three time /week. Nothing fancy mind you.
I guess you could say we are having the time of our lives. I'm 75 and DW is 73. Some health issues have caught up with us in recent years but we are enjoying life. Right now, LBYM to me means "living BEYOND you means".
All very interesting posts and ideas, but I don't necessarily agree with those LBYM...
...I guess you could say we are having the time of our lives. I'm 75 and DW is 73. Some health issues have caught up with us in recent years but we are enjoying life. Right now, LBYM to me means "living BEYOND you means".
Quite the opposite (for me) I went and got (another) credit card that hadA pair of scissors, to cut up your credit cards.
Quite the opposite (for me) I went and got (another) credit card that had a cash back feature. ....