SomedaySoon
Recycles dryer sheets
- Joined
- Sep 15, 2009
- Messages
- 99
I've been there. With me it's siblings who lived a live of "don't worry, something will come up/things will turn around" without actually doing anything to make that happen for --- forty years!! ----
Then age, medical misfortune, unemployment, and perpetual brokeness all collide. Collide with him living in a State that dumped on the ACA , so Guess Who had to keep paying for medical insurance, rent, car insurance, etc for a good long while? And now, yrs later I am still providing subsidies as if I were the Dept of Agriculture.
I have one sibling that matches yours exactly, but his 4 siblings have had the face to face and told him that we were not going to continue working just so he could have an "early retirement". Since then he has stepped up and managed "ok". Yes, we would probably help again somewhat when he reaches the end of his rope, but more likely point him to that barest security blanket that may be available to him,