Al in Ohio
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
I have to agree with this. Unless you're in a position to go ahead and retire now, I would play along for the next three years, collect the increases/bonuses, and then exit on your terms 3 years from now.
I've read (and seen) too many horror stories of people tipping their hand early, and then being handed their hat. You don't want that happening.
The stress and unwanted responsibility is probably something you don't want in the last few years there, but unless you can ER now, I vote to suck it up, take their money, and then ER in 3 years when you're in total control. That way, their response can't hurt you.
I agree. Seems like the consensus here is to play along and not even hint at my ER plans. I had an idea to write down my short term and long term goals for my group ahead of time and go over it with my office manager before we have the group meeting with the VP. None of my long term goals would include expansion of my responsibilities , but a suggestion to hire more senior level folks like me in several other key regions we support now that would be better to be regionally self sufficient . My plan would be more corporately structured than just a plan for my group.