Looking for resources to learn about assisted living choices for DM. She's 87 and in fantastic health. Lives about 2 hours away from us now. She has wanted to stay in her home for as long as possible, which I understand totally.
There will come a time when she will need some assistance and she has decided that she should move to where we live when that time comes. I am thrilled with that decision because the little town she lives in has only 2 choices and neither is where I would want to see anyone's parent live out their final days.
I know I will need to visit many of the area assisted living communities in person and will begin that process.
BTW... DM's income is 40k (pension, SS, some dividend income). Owns a home worth about 30k. She has LTC insurance that will pay out only $83 a day when the time comes. I'd like to get her situated while her health is good. There are no CCRC's in this area, only assisted living facilities.
What I'm hoping for with this post is for some direction by members of this community who have been through this process with their parent. I'm hope there are resources (online and otherwise) that I should be using along the way and pointing those out will be appreciated.
There will come a time when she will need some assistance and she has decided that she should move to where we live when that time comes. I am thrilled with that decision because the little town she lives in has only 2 choices and neither is where I would want to see anyone's parent live out their final days.
I know I will need to visit many of the area assisted living communities in person and will begin that process.
BTW... DM's income is 40k (pension, SS, some dividend income). Owns a home worth about 30k. She has LTC insurance that will pay out only $83 a day when the time comes. I'd like to get her situated while her health is good. There are no CCRC's in this area, only assisted living facilities.
What I'm hoping for with this post is for some direction by members of this community who have been through this process with their parent. I'm hope there are resources (online and otherwise) that I should be using along the way and pointing those out will be appreciated.