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So I hung it up February 1st 2017 but continue saving over 40% of my income. How did you switch from a saver to a spender mentality?
+1No longer having meaningful income worked for me.
So for those of you who manage to do this, how did you do it? What was the overline factor that had you deciding it's okay.
Try to think of things or experiences that you really, actually want. It's not helpful to just blow money on junk that will end up in a landfill, or experiences that would bore you to death.So I hung it up February 1st 2017 but continue saving over 40% of my income. How did you switch from a saver to a spender mentality?
So for those of you who manage to do this, how did you do it? What was the overline factor that had you deciding it's okay.
My net income is almost 3300 month from DBP + dividends, my savings is 1375 month (supposed to be 1000 for family vactions + 375 for GKS college but the 1st one's on full scholarship and no family vacation this past summer as oldest GS was helping his BF move home from a year abroad and oldest GD was volunteering in Costa Rica). At any rate, it will triple when RMD will be required. I became more of a minimalist after my son died and I needed to borrow money to bury him. Then that switch in my brain never switched off
I really need help figuring out how to switch off that saver mentality. I shouldn't have to justify purchases at the grocery store or clothing. But somehow I just can't break that habit. I really want help on how to do it
So for those of you who manage to do this, how did you do it? What was the overline factor that had you deciding it's okay.
My personal background: I'm single and was homeless for two times out of my life, I buried a son when I was struggling to keep up the mortgage paid leaving me on disability × 7 months, but I'm not there anymore
Try to think of things or experiences that you really, actually want. It's not helpful to just blow money on junk that will end up in a landfill, or experiences that would bore you to death.
So I hung it up February 1st 2017 but continue saving over 40% of my income. How did you switch from a saver to a spender mentality?
So I hung it up February 1st 2017 but continue saving over 40% of my income. How did you switch from a saver to a spender mentality?
It sounds like you've had a pretty rough road. Perhaps direct some income towards charities that help people who find themselves in similar straights.
It will burn down some cash, get you spending, help someone, and there is ample evidence that helping others generates more happiness than marginal consumption.
Just a thought.