At the risk of being morbid, wait until some good friends and/or relatives your age or younger suddenly die of some accident or disease that came out of nowhere. You will probably decide to up your spending quite a bit.
That said, I have had the same problem and I still have to look in the mirror at times and ask 'What, exactly, are you waiting for?'
My problem is I've never kept an actual written budget. So, for now, I'm actually going to follow a budget to see my spending patterns and monthly amount. I have a feeling it's going to be lower than what I allow myself to spend.
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