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Old 06-21-2012, 10:26 PM   #21
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Originally Posted by Notmuchlonger View Post
When both people are doing what they want there is nothing to worry about.
+1. I think DH was apprehensive with my ER initially because he thought I would have too much free time and end up nagging him. Turns out, I keep myself pretty busy and liking what I do. Also, he has more home-cooked meals - something I know he enjoys.

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Old 06-25-2012, 02:34 PM   #22
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I've been retired for 5+ years and DW won't retire for 4 more years. So far, I'd say that it has worked out pretty well. I've relieved her of most household chores - cooking, cleaning, shopping and yard work and she appreciates it. We still do things together on the weekends and all summer (she teaches). So, it seems like there is a compromise between both working or both retired that can work.
I just ER'd and DW still enjoys working and will work until 45. Like you, I am taking over the household chores so it's a trade-off and so far it seems to work out well. While both working, I would drive us to and from everyday- been doing that for the past 12+ years so she knows that it kind of takes its toll on me and the stress level goes up over time. She actually wanted to work until 50 but I told her I would appreciate her only working until 45.

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Old 06-28-2012, 07:39 AM   #23
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Originally Posted by Birchwood
The issue of age difference can be a real concern if your partner is very much involved at work and you are free and wants to roam around a lot.

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