OkieTexan said:
1. Small city - 30,000 to 100,000 (Large enough to serve you; small enough to know you)
2. Good value real estate
3. Clean environment with good city/county management
4. Mild climate with a noticable change of season
5. Close enough to a big city for a weekend visit.
Interesting criteria! For some reason, these make me think of towns in Mississippi, such as Meridian or Hattiesburg.
OkieTexan said:
Springfield, MO is an interesting choice for someone from NOLa. I like the area, too. It is right between the Great Plains and the Ozarks.
When we started looking for places online (using the above criteria), Springfield kept popping up. My grandparents lived there. Though I no longer have any living relatives there and hadn't been there since 1962 or so, this was probably at least partially why I noticed it so much during my search. We went up there twice last year, on one week vacations, and fell in love with the place. Although no place is perfect, it seems to be just what we want.
OkieTexan said:
For me, choosing a place "out of the blue" would be a lot riskier now than it was 30 yrs. ago. I am surprised at how many "hooks" I have to certain places, people and things as I have grown older. I would have to be sure that my destination held promise to my hopes and dreams. It would have to be worth leaving an environment I have become very accustomed to for many years. I could do it if I really wanted to; but I would have to soul search hard to make the commitment.
Good point. Due to factors beyond my control, I have lived substantial parts of my life in each of 7 different southern and western states (8, if northern and southern Calif. are considered different states!). My relatives that are not dead are scattered all over the world. I went to high school in Hawaii, but cannot possibly afford to move back there. When I got "The Job" in New Orleans, I was determined to set down roots and FINALLY feel like I was a permanent resident somewhere. Other people want to travel, but I just want roots!
Unfortunately, after eleven years in Louisiana the New Orleans I adopted no longer exists, will take decades to rebuild if ever, and I have no desire to spend my retirement years surrounded by tragedy, misery and devastation on a Biblical scale. For me, living here in the city I once loved is like living with a dead body in the parlor. I need to build a new life somewhere else.
OkieTexan said:
Right now, we are staying put because we are close to aging parents. However, both DW and I have expressed a desire to live in "our ideal locale" once we figure out what it is.
It's good to think ahead! I am actually doing that too, since I cannot retire for 2-3 years or so. I am leaving the option of staying in New Orleans open, but as time passes I just can't see much changing before I retire.
OkieTexan said:
BTW: I grew up in NE Oklahoma. The climate up there can be very unpredictable. Do you mind shoveling snow?
I have no idea, though I have heard it is hard work even with a snow blower. I suppose that I will probably have to hire someone to help me with snow in the winter and grass in the summer. I don't think I would choose a house with a sidewalk - - more snow to shovel. Then all that I would need to shovel would be the driveway, I suppose, and then only if I wanted to drive out of my garage. I am thinking of having a large pantry full of nonperishables, and living close enough to businesses that I could walk (with those metal no-slip things for walking on ice, if it is icy). I am really not used to snow and ice so all of this is uncertain for me right now.
OkieTexan said:
How do you react to tornadoes? In Tulsa, they have a storm alert siren at the fair grounds. It can be heard all over the city. It goes off when a storm front approaches with potential for tornadic activity. I heard one go off when I was visiting there last year. It really gets your attention!
I can imagine! We had a two tornados that tore through New Orleans two weeks ago, killing one and injuring more, and destroying over a dozen homes. We were supposed to get more last night and the Parish (=county) said they would send out fire trucks with their horns blaring, to wake us up, if there was a tornado warning. Luckily, this time we lucked out. New Orleans isn't generally very tornado prone, though we have had destructive tornados within the city limits in both 2006 and 2007. Seems like bad luck comes in threes.
A tornado jumped over me and destroyed houses on either side when I lived in Meridian, MS in the 1970's, so I'm not unfamiliar with them and have a healthy respect for them. If I don't end up with a basement in Springfield, maybe I will have a tornado shelter installed in the back yard.