Chuckanut
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There are plenty of good ones out there, but it takes time to find them.
This thread was the topic of conversation last night in my home. I know this is selfish, but I much rather leave my wife a widow than me being a widower. That being said I asked her if i died would she date? Her response was a bit unsettling. She told me "you would be married in a year to a young girl". I said no I wouldnt I would be crying for the first year. Id get married in the second year.
She then said she knew I would haunt her from the grave if she dated, so she would wear black, cry, sit home and knit, did that make me happy? I told her no, I also want her to kiss my picture every night before she goes to bed alone. She said OK.
Im trying to save her heartache from the dating scene.
There are plenty of good ones out there, but it takes time to find them.
There are plenty of good ones out there, but it takes time to find them.
People talk about companionship. Unclear to me what is being sought here. Some meetups are fine if all one needs is coffee and some chit-chat.
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There are plenty of good ones out there, but it takes time to find them.
So you say...
Been looking, off and on, for 10 years. Where the heck are they hiding?
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So you say...
Been looking, off and on, for 10 years. Where the heck are they hiding?
omni
They discovered the internet, no one goes out anymore. If your a widow forgetabout it, your friends are scared you will steal their husbands.
Assuming you are looking for a long term relationship that may lead to marriage, it gets old after a while to "just have fun" with people. If you wait for date number 5 or 6 or more to start asking important questions, and you don't like the answers, you have to start over...and after doing that a number of times it gets old and exhausting (physically and emotionally) and time consuming, so you want to shortcut the process.
I agree that you can't really know a person that quickly (although you can get clues and form a general impression), but I disagree that you should not expect to get honest answers before the 5th or 6th date. I expect honest answers at all times, regardless of the number of dates.I don't think I could know a person AND expect to get honest answers from a stranger before the 5th or 6th date.
I don't think I could know a person AND expect to get honest answers from a stranger before the 5th or 6th date. There are those few people that we click with right away but those are few. Maybe that is part of the problem, wanting to consolidate everything into 30 second dating. Are people taking a checklist with them on their 1st and 2nd date?
Can she afford to traveling? I don't mind paying a bit more than my share, but I'm not paying for her airfare and every hotel.
Does she enjoy sex. I've met women my age who said they are done with sex.
Is she an emotional user? They're out there.
Is she bitter or over her last relationships. At this age there's baggage, but I don't want to haul both of ours. Mine's heavy enough.
I agree that you can't really know a person that quickly (although you can get clues and form a general impression), but I disagree that you should not expect to get honest answers before the 5th or 6th date. I expect honest answers at all times, regardless of the number of dates.
They discovered the internet, no one goes out anymore. If your a widow forgetabout it, your friends are scared you will steal their husbands.
a lumberjack. problem îs we live in Philadelphia. because Timber is always the first thing one thinks of hen you think Philly.
Go yo Youtube and look for the Lumberjack SongSome of us look GREAT in red flannel shirts. Maybe not to much timber in Philly, but not much competition either.
Unfortunately, I can definitely see this happening with younger women. I don't think it is going to be too much of an issue with older ones, though. We know Prince Charming isn't actually around the corner, and if he does, he has nose hair.
I dated a woman who said this exact thing on our first date! Talk about honesty. We didn't meet on Tinder, but she told me how much she liked the app and how using it had enabled her to "experience the finer things in the city for free". Needless to say, when the check came, she didn't reach for it.
Her husband is a bum, actual he was a lawyer but then quit to become.....wait for it...... a lumberjack. problem îs we live in Philadelphia. because Timber is always the first thing one thinks of hen you think Philly.