I was in central Oregon, where I hope to retire, during Thanksgiving. One of my concerns is that I won't be able to handle the winters but I do have lots of relatives in NM and TX that I can "visit" during the winter months. It was about 10 degrees colder there but was in or near the 40's by 10 am so I'm thinking that this is not too bad. The daylight hours are also not as long but less than an hour shorter than down south. Also there was never much of a wind. Then I get back to NM and now it's in the negative digits in Oregon.
My mom's last 13 years were spent in southern Washington, so we looked for over 10 years at retiring there or to Oregon. We've made friends with a lot of beagle people, and we had the chance to be there through all the seasons.
I think OR is a beautiful state, and we would love the chance to own some acreage there; in fact, twice we made offers on houses there, but they didn't work out.
It's a good thing they didn't. After seeing all the seasons many times, I finally realized over the past 2-3 years that too many months of dark days wouldn't work for me. I think it started happening as i got older. I get nauseous and feel like I want to curl up in a ball. I can't stand it. It shuts me down, even when it happens here in California. I truly am solar powered these days.
The final straw for me was flying up to Portland in early July from a sunny California day to get below Portland's clouds and finding overcast.
We had looked at the forecast and saw sunshine, so we wore shorts.
Like you, I have relatives in TX to visit, but then, I never did see the point of leaving where I can live all year round, mostly in comfort, to move to a place where I have to get out of town for a few months every year.
And then I have 3 dogs to take with me, wherever I go . . . .