Re: Both spouses should have work skills.
Spouse & I have been friends with another military married couple for decades. One's an O-6, the other's an O-5, and they'll both stay in until forced to retire. One may be wearing several stars by then, although we all know who's been helping behind the scenes.
So with a combined annual income of over $300K, $2M in the retirement portfolio, and qualified to draw $100K govt pensions with COLAs & paid medical, then why the heck are they both working 70-hour weeks? His excuse is testosterone poisoning-- he loves being a steely-eyed killer of the deep and he feels obligated to "support the family" by being largely absent to earn that means of support. It's not necessarily "right" or "wrong" but it sure has society's seal of approval.
Nords: With those kind of numbers, it appears that our national gratitude for the "financial hardships" for our men in uniform has been misdirected