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Bad or Crazy thoughts – 3 months on
Since I’ve been RVing and traveling by my self there have been times when “bad” thoughts have come into my mind. This usually happens on a rainy day or in a place that might be perceived as a depressing. The “bad” thoughts usually take three forms of which some others might be familiar with. The first is that I could have progressed further in my career – especially after I hear who got what new position. The second is that after looking at the lifestyles of many of the people I encounter on a daily basis is that I did give up the golden ring – money, security and an easy job. The third is the fear of the future and I may not realize the romantic image for my RE.
When the sun comes out these thoughts are dealt with and my excitement about RE returns. I remember that I could have continued working, maybe got promoted and died (richer) in the golden security cage. What would that have gotten me? – I think I would have gotten older, richer and a better title but dead inside. I did give up a lot of what many people strive for in work. But now I have what many others are also striving for - freedom. Finally, my fear that I may not realize my future plans is there in everything we do. RE takes work as the book “How to Retire, Happy, Wild and Free” points out. I guess I need to remind myself of this and to be patient. I think time will tell. Maybe in a few years when I compare what I have done with those still at work will the reality hit home.
There is another lesson I’ve been trying to take to hart. Allow and accept places and people for what they are and not what you wish they were. If you do this you will be available for the lesson you have to learn and maybe the goodness that is there.
So all of you thinking about RE shouldn’t believe that every day is a day of wine and roses. There are still things to learn and deal with.
Since I’ve been RVing and traveling by my self there have been times when “bad” thoughts have come into my mind. This usually happens on a rainy day or in a place that might be perceived as a depressing. The “bad” thoughts usually take three forms of which some others might be familiar with. The first is that I could have progressed further in my career – especially after I hear who got what new position. The second is that after looking at the lifestyles of many of the people I encounter on a daily basis is that I did give up the golden ring – money, security and an easy job. The third is the fear of the future and I may not realize the romantic image for my RE.
When the sun comes out these thoughts are dealt with and my excitement about RE returns. I remember that I could have continued working, maybe got promoted and died (richer) in the golden security cage. What would that have gotten me? – I think I would have gotten older, richer and a better title but dead inside. I did give up a lot of what many people strive for in work. But now I have what many others are also striving for - freedom. Finally, my fear that I may not realize my future plans is there in everything we do. RE takes work as the book “How to Retire, Happy, Wild and Free” points out. I guess I need to remind myself of this and to be patient. I think time will tell. Maybe in a few years when I compare what I have done with those still at work will the reality hit home.
There is another lesson I’ve been trying to take to hart. Allow and accept places and people for what they are and not what you wish they were. If you do this you will be available for the lesson you have to learn and maybe the goodness that is there.
So all of you thinking about RE shouldn’t believe that every day is a day of wine and roses. There are still things to learn and deal with.