jollystomper
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Not every finds it easy to say no. I do not have a problem with it, I just say it nicely and with a smile, and if possible try to suggest an alternative. DW has a hard time saying no, and I (by her request) am helping her adjust. She is essentially retired - only teaching one day a week, something she loves" - and gets requests to help with house sitting, baby sitting, cooking, etc. multiple times a week.
My approach is to look at every request and try to discern if it is a one time thing or if there is potential for a trend to develop. The "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me" saying might come into play as well.
My approach is to look at every request and try to discern if it is a one time thing or if there is potential for a trend to develop. The "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me" saying might come into play as well.