With apologies for monopolizing my own thread and over-posting:
Thanks, everyone, for your replies! They really helped, especially since I have to watch Bucket List tonight (a friend is insisting) and in the future will have to play a game called Did You Ever? (another friend insisting) where you get points for things like if you ever sky dived or went skinny dipping with someone of the opposite sex (no to both of these---I can guarantee I'll lose the game---very sheltered life, at least externally).
Please know that just because I didn't reply immediately does not mean that I did not appreciate your input. Now that I am FIREd, I do tend to procrastinate. And I've gotten involved in some other things and get distracted by other sites.
Since Dex seems to feel that I was negligent in my duties as the OP/hostess of this thread, I will attempt to make amends by answering every comment. I realize this may get old, so my feelings won't be hurt if you don't read any/all (Dex already accomplished the hurt feelings, but I suppose a little bit of that is good every now and then to remind me of why I don't want to be working and dealing with rude clients, co-workers, and bosses!
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Achiever: I did think about volunteering. There are even sites to look up volunteer opportunities. So far I've not found anything of interest or even any place that desperately seems to need volunteers).
bbbam: Took me 54 years to learn it, but you're right about pleasure being a top priority in life!
Ha: I'm not sure I agree with your comment about it costing even more to be single. Yes, I guess a single person may feel more compelled to get out more since there isn't anyone at home to talk to, but when a couple goes out, wouldn't it be twice the amount of money---drinks, meals, entertainment---as for a single person?
Purron: since we share some of the same interests and values, it means a lot that you gave your blessing to splurge a little!
Moemg: I agree wholeheartedly about friendships being important as we age. I just wish I had done more to cultivate them when I as younger.
Dex---not that you will be reading this: No, I don't have socializing as a line item. Don't budget. Just try to not spend much money. This is so new there would have been no way of predicting how much will be needed.
Danny: No question that some socializing beats night after night of TV, especially with as bad as TV has gotten, especially during the summer.
Don Heff: The funny thing is, we were actually too tired when we worked to gout during the week and fight traffic!
Orchidflower: It's great that you enjoy being with people but still like a little down time for yourself.
Want2Retire: I agree---it's wonderful to identify what you want and be able to pursue it.
Moemg: Good of you to host parties. There are some people who never give parties but attend them. For whatever reason, they just never reciprocate.
Firedreamer: wow! You must make some terrific meals! Are you a foodie? Want to exchange recipes?
KCowan: I think boccee would be fun to try.
Marquette: I already responded about the bean soup.
Kombat: will take your word about Vegas.
Dex: doesn't sound like Vegas is for you.
Purron: Hoover Dam must be something to see!
lsbcal: the hostess phobia of your wife must make entertaining at home stressful for both you and her!
Milton: yes! Finding friends who enjoy ethnic dives! We found a Meetup group that just goes out to eat for global cuisine.