rockymountainhigh
Recycles dryer sheets
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I still get that question occasionally, my stock answer is "anything I want".
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I still get that question occasionally, my stock answer is "anything I want".
OK, Why are so many people so concerned over how I spend my time? Why do they expect me to be accountable to them?
I must admit that I am a bit amazed at how many people are now questioning me about the details about how I spend my time. While not technicaly retired, I have done my last day of work and am busy doing things about the house, catching up on my reading and socializing.
Have others experienced this phenomena? Questions like "What do you do all day?", "How long did it take you to do that?", What are you going to do next?", or, the worst one "Don't you get bored?"
I was not ready for this. I expected a few comments, but not this many and not so often. Or do I have so much idle time on my hands that I am imagining this.
My Mom has had this on her desk for years (must be true, she's 90)I seem to have had more free time when I was full time employed than I do now. My honey do list had gotten so large over the years that I am now trying to work on it and I figure I need about 5 more years to finally catch up and erase it - as long as nothing else gets added to it that is...
I was put on this earth to accomplish a certain number of things. Right now I'm so far behind I will never die.-- Calvin (& Hobbes)
her older relatives' minds went downhill after they stopped working.
People are naturally and IMO rightfully curious about the people in their environment. It pays to know what working age males are doing when they are walking around in the day. I want to know as much as I can about the people in my environment, and they want to know about me.And Chuckanut, what you are really asking, I suspect, is "Why are some people so darn nosey?"
Amethyst
There are plenty of well intended reasons they could be asking that have nothing to do with being nosey, as many earlier posts discussed. The issue can be with the retiree and not the person asking a simple question...Why are so many people so concerned over how I spend my time?
And why do some many people think they have to answer such a nosey question in great details ? I would not even bother.
My Mom has had this on her desk for years (must be true, she's 90)
I was put on this earth to accomplish a certain number of things. Right now I'm so far behind I will never die.-- Calvin (& Hobbes)
I thought that was the idea of Facebook?Minute by minute, blow by blow, including personal hygiene stuff (brushed my teeth). That tends to stop future questions.
+1People are welcome to talk to me, unless they say "give me your money!"
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Some of it may be just the usual conversation starter type stuff to show interest in the other person (in this case Chuckanut).
I get "How's work?" all the time from folks I haven't talked to recently.
My son's get "How's school?"
And it's not uncommon for me to ask "How are things going? Doing anything interesting?"
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It's hell, but it beats the alternative of going back to work.OK, Why are so many people so concerned over how I spend my time? Why do they expect me to be accountable to them?
Have others experienced this phenomena? Questions like "What do you do all day?", "How long did it take you to do that?", What are you going to do next?", or, the worst one "Don't you get bored?"
I was not ready for this. I expected a few comments, but not this many and not so often. Or do I have so much idle time on my hands that I am imagining this.