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Help me choose between 2 offers
I'm currently employed as an actuarial analyst for a pension consulting firm. The work is a bit boring (accounting stuff) and including travel time it takes up 55-60 hrs/wk. If any of you are familiar with the actuarial career, you will know that I'm also studying my butt off for exams, which takes another 15-20 hrs/wk during exam season.
I recently received 2 offers, here is a break down:
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These two alone, at least at this stage of my w*rking life, would be an absolute deal-killer.
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Sounds like it depends on you. If you're a go-getter, like change and want to deal with political animals, then its job #2. If you're a family type and/or the job isnt your life/#1 priority, and/or you dont like a lot of change/sudden moves/loud noises/etc then go with job #1.
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Personally, I'd choose number 1 because of the hours and because 2 is so cutthroat. I did my time working long hours and at 59 I really would rather not beat myself to death like that any more. And, I don't tolerate cutthroat environments if they go over the line and become abusive.
But the important thing is, which one sounds best to you? ![]()
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By the way: I'd also add that the "5% higher pay" in j*b #2 would be completely eaten up -- and then some -- by the cost of that hellacious commute. And every time gas prices spike, it's like a big pay cut.
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How old are you and do you have or imminently plan to have a family?
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door number 1.
biggest reason i saw - time. you need to pass those exams. getting your certification/degree/etc, which will lead to promotions, career broadening opps, and career visibility of the finest kind. as my dear mom always told me "they can't take your education away" good luck in making your decision and your new job.
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We've discussed starting a family but it is not imminent. Thanks for your inputs. I'm leaning toward 1 because time is valuable to me. If I compare the $/hr value, the life insurance position is 25% more valuable than my current job or the P&C offer. |
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I gues I would suggest you think abut where each of these jobs will lead you in your career. My suspicion is that #2 would give you a lot more opportunity down the road and quite possibly much higher earnings over time. I would probably pick #2 in that case, since I tend to get bored easily and career advancement was especially important to me at your age.
And you can study on the train. That's how I did at least half of the work for my MBA.
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I'm into quality of life issues, not income, so I'd pick #1.
But this is also the guy who, once I landed a straight day work/weekends & holidays off position in a 24/7 agency, stopped taking promotional exams because a promotion would have meant returning to rotating shift work. The day work job also meant about a $5K pay cut. But my wife was about doing cartwheels in the front yard because we could have a normal life. Hard to put a price tag on that.
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The commute will kill you with #2. |
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If you pick 2, move closer to work. Long commutes are highly unhealthy.
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Ugh. Option #2 sounds like a high-stress hamster wheel with no guarantee of satisfaction.
Quality of life is really important and Option #1 sounds like a better quality of life with what may be the same compensation. Option #2 sounds awful. |
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As you can see, people who have a common interest in getting the hell out of the work force aren't the most ambitious bunch out there.
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So it's either 1) great opportunity, unhealthy and no time for myself, or 2) less opportunity, less challenging, but greater personal time. My goal is to kick the bucket eventually so maybe I should just take it easy until then... |
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If you go with option 1, what other opportunities exist for either personal or professional development? 20 hrs a week savings can get you an MBA, pottery class, volunteer time with a local org you like, etc. And, if you plan to have kids eventually, 20 hours is a huge loss (if you see yourself as a family man, that is).
Then again, I took a $25k pay cut to get out of the situation I was in. I favored more free time over more money. |
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Imo #1
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