ShortInSeattle
Full time employment: Posting here.
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OK, this is a weird question, but I thought I'd throw it out there.
Hubby and I come from modest backgrounds, we're pretty down to earth people, and we're hard workers. We've done all the "right things" in terms of saving wisely, finishing college, being frugal, and so on. We're in our mid thirties, earning a high household income, and saving a lot of money for FI/RE.
What I've noticed though is that instead of making me feel comforted/secure, our situation makes me feel a bit anxious. Earning "big bucks" feels exciting but tenuous, as if it can evaporate at any moment. As silly as it sounds, the risk of losing 100k jobs is scarier than losing 40k jobs. It's not like there are storm clouds on the horizon, but the more financially successful we are, the less secure I feel.
On a rational level, my feelings are foolish. We've worked hard and been lucky, we're building a nice nest egg, and we are really enjoying life. So why is success scary sometimes?
I suppose I'm wondering if I'm the only one to have this reaction.
SIS
Hubby and I come from modest backgrounds, we're pretty down to earth people, and we're hard workers. We've done all the "right things" in terms of saving wisely, finishing college, being frugal, and so on. We're in our mid thirties, earning a high household income, and saving a lot of money for FI/RE.
What I've noticed though is that instead of making me feel comforted/secure, our situation makes me feel a bit anxious. Earning "big bucks" feels exciting but tenuous, as if it can evaporate at any moment. As silly as it sounds, the risk of losing 100k jobs is scarier than losing 40k jobs. It's not like there are storm clouds on the horizon, but the more financially successful we are, the less secure I feel.
On a rational level, my feelings are foolish. We've worked hard and been lucky, we're building a nice nest egg, and we are really enjoying life. So why is success scary sometimes?
I suppose I'm wondering if I'm the only one to have this reaction.
SIS