Milton
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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Glad to hear that you received confirmation of what you already knew to be true.
I am somewhat puzzled that you even considered this in the first place, given your own description of the situation:
Good advice from ER Eddie, BTW. Gently remind your husband that marriage is a partnership and he needs to spend more time with you, even if that means devoting less energy to his job (which he finds stimulating, but is not financially required).
I am somewhat puzzled that you even considered this in the first place, given your own description of the situation:
Where was the apparent upside? What attracted you? What would be so engaging and satisfying?I've been eagerly anticipating ER for as long as I've been working.... I just don't want to have to think about the pettiness and be bothered when I'm doing other things. So, all was sailing along pretty smoothly until DH landed a very intense job with megacorp in a different state.... Since work is about all the life he has these days, he suggested that I come and work with him at megacorp. I could see the upside, so I started talking with megacorp....
Part of me is very concerned that this will be a major mistake. I don't want to work 70 hours a week. I don't want a lot of stress and hassle. I can imagine what my day-to-day life will look like, and it's going to be rough. But at the same time, I feel drawn to it. I think the work would be very engaging and satisfying (as well as stressful and all-consuming).
Good advice from ER Eddie, BTW. Gently remind your husband that marriage is a partnership and he needs to spend more time with you, even if that means devoting less energy to his job (which he finds stimulating, but is not financially required).
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