Montecfo
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My dear MIL, who is 92, recently moved into an independent living facility after living in her own SFH for years. She gave up driving at the same, as we have begun noticing some confusion. This week she received a call from a scammer pretending to be her grandson, crying and saying he was in trouble in Mexico. Please don't tell Mom and Dad just give me credit card number so I can pay the bail and get home, blah blah blah.
Well, she gave out her credit card and by the time one of the kids realized what had happened, her card had been charged for several thousand dollars. She sniffed out a scam like this probably 5 years ago but apparently she is no longer able to. Of course, all her grands are safe and sound. We were able to get the charge cancelled but it was a very unsettling experience for all.
I am curious how folks usually deal with this risk. Mostly, the kids manage her finances, and she has few bills other than rent, and they are paid automatically. We hate to take away her credit cards, but perhaps there is a way to limit charges to a certain amount? I guess there is a similar risk with checks.
Ideas welcome.
Well, she gave out her credit card and by the time one of the kids realized what had happened, her card had been charged for several thousand dollars. She sniffed out a scam like this probably 5 years ago but apparently she is no longer able to. Of course, all her grands are safe and sound. We were able to get the charge cancelled but it was a very unsettling experience for all.
I am curious how folks usually deal with this risk. Mostly, the kids manage her finances, and she has few bills other than rent, and they are paid automatically. We hate to take away her credit cards, but perhaps there is a way to limit charges to a certain amount? I guess there is a similar risk with checks.
Ideas welcome.