I would be interested in hearing the story. My Mom got HBP at 31 like most of her family. However, she always took great care of herself which is why I think she lived so long despite having other health challenges when she got old. The story you mention about that woman sounds awful.
As mentioned earlier, this is a true life story. I happened to find this on the Web, and the poor woman posted her story and photos too of her conditions (arghh!
). Out of respect for this woman, I will not share the links.
You can be overweight, or your BP or your blood glucose may be high, and it's still OK. But when you have all these problems, then you are hit with something more serious like this woman undergoing surgery, oh man, it's pure misery.
I have seen my father and father-in-law suffering in their last years, and it was not pretty. However, they were a lot older, and not just 60 like this woman.
...Like Music Lover says there is no advantage to being out of shape other than you have more time to watch TV and eat
I do not even watch TV, and I do not eat that much (as evidenced by my BMI of 23). However, I tend to surf the Web too much, in addition to hanging around this forum. I have to remind myself to go do some other "stuff". Once I am off the laptop, there's no surfin' on the smartphone, which I use only to make/receive calls.
We never have any interest in a Fitbit because we move about plenty during the day. While my wife never has to weigh herself to check, I weigh myself every day. Other than when recovering from surgery, there was never a time in my life when I could not do squats, pushups, and pullups. When I am out of shape, I cannot do that many, but I always can.