So this young dreamer's dream is being deferred, for now. DW and I have made up our minds, and we've decided the best thing for our daughter right now is for one of us to stay at home. Long story short, DW quitting was the best option, so her last day will be the end of March.
Our daughter is the light of our life, but she is continuing to fall behind in her physical milestones. At 17 months she still isn't crawling. PT wants to do weekly sessions and sign her up for other programs, like "reigns" a program where special needs kids learn to ride horses (helps lots of development areas).
So my plan for retirement at 45 ain't gonna happen, but I'm o.k. with that. Looking at what weve saved so far, and what we'll continue to save, and all the things we have learned here and elsewhere, we are still doing very well. We don't have to be afraid of being two paychecks from eviction, and if all goes well, I'll still be retiring around 55, not too shabby. Of course, my DW counts her retirement in days! I asked her the other day, "what do you want to do in retirement" and she said, "oh, go to the park with Tori, go to play dates, and the beach and...." . It took me a second to realize she wasn't talking about 25 years from now like I was!
So I guess that saying about making God laugh by showing him your plans fits here. But I want to thank all of you for the sage advice you've shared here, my understanding has grown exponentially over the last year, and while we are not FIRE, I do feel like we've obtained a modicum of FI, and the freedom to do what feels right is liberating! So hopefully you'll still let me hang out, even though I went from ER wannabe to er wannabe!
Our daughter is the light of our life, but she is continuing to fall behind in her physical milestones. At 17 months she still isn't crawling. PT wants to do weekly sessions and sign her up for other programs, like "reigns" a program where special needs kids learn to ride horses (helps lots of development areas).
So my plan for retirement at 45 ain't gonna happen, but I'm o.k. with that. Looking at what weve saved so far, and what we'll continue to save, and all the things we have learned here and elsewhere, we are still doing very well. We don't have to be afraid of being two paychecks from eviction, and if all goes well, I'll still be retiring around 55, not too shabby. Of course, my DW counts her retirement in days! I asked her the other day, "what do you want to do in retirement" and she said, "oh, go to the park with Tori, go to play dates, and the beach and...." . It took me a second to realize she wasn't talking about 25 years from now like I was!
So I guess that saying about making God laugh by showing him your plans fits here. But I want to thank all of you for the sage advice you've shared here, my understanding has grown exponentially over the last year, and while we are not FIRE, I do feel like we've obtained a modicum of FI, and the freedom to do what feels right is liberating! So hopefully you'll still let me hang out, even though I went from ER wannabe to er wannabe!