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Almost done reading “Never Say Die: The Myth and Marketing of the New Old Age,” a very interesting but highly depressing book by Susan Jacoby. It’s got a definite political slant (left), which might bother some, but its myth-busting findings have some bearing on those of us who are planning to retire early or have already done so.
On the one hand, you might think it supports the view of most of us here that it’s best to pull the trigger as early as possible in order to enjoy as many remaining years of good health (mental and physical) as possible. Yet, it doesn’t buy into the idea that expenses are lower later in life and paints such a depressing financial picture that you might find yourself encouraged to work as long as possible.
Here are a few of the book’s main points, as I see them, with some quotes:
1. The idea that baby boomers will be able to make “90 the new 50” by eating right and staying physically and mentally active is bunk. “We cannot continue to base our image of old age on the extraordinary person, blessed by a combination of affluence and physiological hardiness, who remains ‘as sharp as a tack’ and takes up a new, youthful hobby – say, skydiving – in her nineties.”
2. The writer distinguishes between the “young old” (or “new old”) and the “old old.” The media like to focus on the young old and extrapolate their experience into the old old, but that’s not accurate. “In real old age, as opposed to fantasyland, most people who live beyond their mid-eighties can expect a period of extended frailty and disability before they die.” Alzheimer’s may only affect 10% of those over 65, but it affects nearly 50% of those over 85. Only 5% of Americans over 65 are confined to institutions, but after 85 the chances of ending up in a nursing home become 50-50.
3. If we succeed in lengthening life spans further through medical intervention, we’ll only be extending what is likely to be the most difficult and expensive period in a person’s life. “Longevity enthusiasts, especially in the boomer generation, never ask whether a longer life will necessarily be a gift; most are convinced that they can bend old age to their will through their own good behavior, reinforced by a little help from Big Pharma.” It’s a vain (in both senses of the word) hope. As is the idea that we'll die swiftly and gently in our sleep at home. “In the United States today, only about 20 percent of us die at home, although public opinion surveys repeatedly have shown that 90 percent of Americans – whether or not they subscribe to the hope of immortality – would prefer to end their lives in their own beds.”
Depressed yet? If you want to read more, here’s an excerpt from her preface.
On the one hand, you might think it supports the view of most of us here that it’s best to pull the trigger as early as possible in order to enjoy as many remaining years of good health (mental and physical) as possible. Yet, it doesn’t buy into the idea that expenses are lower later in life and paints such a depressing financial picture that you might find yourself encouraged to work as long as possible.
Here are a few of the book’s main points, as I see them, with some quotes:
1. The idea that baby boomers will be able to make “90 the new 50” by eating right and staying physically and mentally active is bunk. “We cannot continue to base our image of old age on the extraordinary person, blessed by a combination of affluence and physiological hardiness, who remains ‘as sharp as a tack’ and takes up a new, youthful hobby – say, skydiving – in her nineties.”
2. The writer distinguishes between the “young old” (or “new old”) and the “old old.” The media like to focus on the young old and extrapolate their experience into the old old, but that’s not accurate. “In real old age, as opposed to fantasyland, most people who live beyond their mid-eighties can expect a period of extended frailty and disability before they die.” Alzheimer’s may only affect 10% of those over 65, but it affects nearly 50% of those over 85. Only 5% of Americans over 65 are confined to institutions, but after 85 the chances of ending up in a nursing home become 50-50.
3. If we succeed in lengthening life spans further through medical intervention, we’ll only be extending what is likely to be the most difficult and expensive period in a person’s life. “Longevity enthusiasts, especially in the boomer generation, never ask whether a longer life will necessarily be a gift; most are convinced that they can bend old age to their will through their own good behavior, reinforced by a little help from Big Pharma.” It’s a vain (in both senses of the word) hope. As is the idea that we'll die swiftly and gently in our sleep at home. “In the United States today, only about 20 percent of us die at home, although public opinion surveys repeatedly have shown that 90 percent of Americans – whether or not they subscribe to the hope of immortality – would prefer to end their lives in their own beds.”
Depressed yet? If you want to read more, here’s an excerpt from her preface.