Gerbil Wheel
Recycles dryer sheets
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- May 1, 2010
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I have good news since my thread http://www.early-retirement.org/forums/f27/opportunity-to-throw-the-boss-under-the-bus-53249.html.
I moved to a new job with nicer people, more relaxed work environment, richer benefits, and a great opportunity to learn…a much better deal that before! (the bully boss at the old job also moved on, ironically at the same time I did, but to a different city…I think he resigned to preempt getting fired…)
At my new job, my official boss is two levels up from me…in between, I have a day-to-day supervisor.
Despite the improvements, I am encountering a new type of stress…I am much more knowledgeable in my area of expertise than my supervisor!
I have worked in Specialty A for over a decade. My supervisor worked in Specialty B and only recently moved into Specialty A, although with some fringe exposure to Specialty A prior to her move.
I also worked in Specialty B before, but made the move into Specialty A years earlier, and got some great consulting experience in Specialty A.
Salary-wise, we are at about the same level...I make slightly less...not sure about bonuses, except knowing that I am not in a bonus program.
This situation is causing me stress. Examples -- the supervisor will focus on an issue, and I will realize that the real issue is something else…or I will ask a question and the supervisor will respond with a non-sequitur. And recently I provided an analysis and recommendation that she pasted into an email to the higher-ups without citing the source (me).
The first week had some tense moments, but I diffused them by kissing a**. It grates on me because I am more capable…the emotion is – resentment!
My boss told me there would be sensitivity with the similar salary levels and my higher level of knowledge. I need to be careful because I want to develop positive relationships…I will probably be on this job two years or more…maybe all the way to FIRE...comments and advice appreciated.
I moved to a new job with nicer people, more relaxed work environment, richer benefits, and a great opportunity to learn…a much better deal that before! (the bully boss at the old job also moved on, ironically at the same time I did, but to a different city…I think he resigned to preempt getting fired…)
At my new job, my official boss is two levels up from me…in between, I have a day-to-day supervisor.
Despite the improvements, I am encountering a new type of stress…I am much more knowledgeable in my area of expertise than my supervisor!
I have worked in Specialty A for over a decade. My supervisor worked in Specialty B and only recently moved into Specialty A, although with some fringe exposure to Specialty A prior to her move.
I also worked in Specialty B before, but made the move into Specialty A years earlier, and got some great consulting experience in Specialty A.
Salary-wise, we are at about the same level...I make slightly less...not sure about bonuses, except knowing that I am not in a bonus program.
This situation is causing me stress. Examples -- the supervisor will focus on an issue, and I will realize that the real issue is something else…or I will ask a question and the supervisor will respond with a non-sequitur. And recently I provided an analysis and recommendation that she pasted into an email to the higher-ups without citing the source (me).
The first week had some tense moments, but I diffused them by kissing a**. It grates on me because I am more capable…the emotion is – resentment!
My boss told me there would be sensitivity with the similar salary levels and my higher level of knowledge. I need to be careful because I want to develop positive relationships…I will probably be on this job two years or more…maybe all the way to FIRE...comments and advice appreciated.