Nuiloa
Recycles dryer sheets
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- May 12, 2011
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My sister was married to a control-freak and managed to divorce him without too much pain and suffering. At about the time of the separation, she met and subsequently married a terrific guy. He ER'd at age 50. He's 60 now and was diagnosed with pancreatic and liver cancer. To show you how great his attitude is, they just went out and bought a 36-foot RV because he wants to travel until he can't anymore.
She has never lived on her own and is soon facing widowhood at age 47. I, on the other hand, have been stubbornly single my entire life and wouldn't have it any other way.
So, she asked me - on a scale of 1 to 10 - if I was happy.
My answer was 9: I live life on my terms, I don't owe anyone, I love my job, I enjoy my hobbies, and I'm close to my family. The only blip is that I could stand to lose weight - which is, of course, entirely under my control.
It was a question that made me think for awhile though.
So what would your answer be?
Nui
She has never lived on her own and is soon facing widowhood at age 47. I, on the other hand, have been stubbornly single my entire life and wouldn't have it any other way.
So, she asked me - on a scale of 1 to 10 - if I was happy.
My answer was 9: I live life on my terms, I don't owe anyone, I love my job, I enjoy my hobbies, and I'm close to my family. The only blip is that I could stand to lose weight - which is, of course, entirely under my control.
It was a question that made me think for awhile though.
So what would your answer be?
Nui