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This article -- a nice change from the usual -- acknowledges that today's focus on fulfilling your potential or ticking off a bucket list in retirement can be oppressive. The word "should" and articles about what you "must do/see/read before dying" make me bristle.
The New York Times: Leave the Bucket Lists to Those Ambitious Boomers
The New York Times: Leave the Bucket Lists to Those Ambitious Boomers
Not much was expected of retirees for a generation, and, perhaps more to the point, retirees did not expect much of themselves. Now, in what could be called retirement 3.0, “a highly educated, active group is looking at what might well be 25 years of leisure, and a lot of people are saying, ‘Sounds boring to me,’” Mr. Dychtwald said. “The upside is that many of them are finding fulfillment in trying new things. They’re looking to achieve more of their potential. Maybe they’re hoping they will be late bloomers.
“The downside,” he added, “is that it creates a lot of pressure on everybody. People are going start to fear that if they’re not making the most of themselves or being sufficiently productive in their later days, they’re going to be looked down on.”