Ignoring users

[RunningBum]

Even if you ignore users, you can still use the "View Post" option to see an individual post. I use this a lot, as a reminder that this person probably has gotten under my skin before, and that I'm choosing to view the post anyway but don't want to let it get to me. It can slow down thread reading but it's a good filter for me. It usually keeps me from responding, especially negatively, and if I think I'm not in the mood to read a post where the style or content is likely to irk me, I don't view it.

You can also choose to not see threads from people you've ignored. I wish these two functions were split. There are at least 2 people I can think of who either just start too many threads that I just don't care to see at all, but I don't mind seeing their posts in other threads at all. It also means that I won't see threads from people I've otherwise chosen to put on my ignore list. There is a way in the control panel to see threads I've ignored, but I rarely remember to check. It's also annoying in that it shows the oldest ones first. Maybe that could be flipped? Admins? https://www.early-retirement.org/forums/cis_manage_threads.php is the page I'm talking about, I'd like to see newest first, not oldest.

 

[Tiger8693]

Even if you ignore users, you can still use the "View Post" option to see an individual post. I use this a lot, as a reminder that this person probably has gotten under my skin before, and that I'm choosing to view the post anyway but don't want to let it get to me. It can slow down thread reading but it's a good filter for me. It usually keeps me from responding, especially negatively, and if I think I'm not in the mood to read a post where the style or content is likely to irk me, I don't view it.

You can also choose to not see threads from people you've ignored. I wish these two functions were split. There are at least 2 people I can think of who either just start too many threads that I just don't care to see at all, but I don't mind seeing their posts in other threads at all. It also means that I won't see threads from people I've otherwise chosen to put on my ignore list. There is a way in the control panel to see threads I've ignored, but I rarely remember to check. It's also annoying in that it shows the oldest ones first. Maybe that could be flipped? Admins? https://www.early-retirement.org/forums/cis_manage_threads.php is the page I'm talking about, I'd like to see newest first, not oldest.

Thanks! Great information!

I just don’t want to spend energy reading or responding to certain folks/attitudes (not worth it), so I appreciate your input and advice!

 

[audreyh1]

I have some posters on ignore. It’s not necessarily about opinions. I’m happy to assert my right to ignore certain people - that improves my quality of life.

 

[target2019]

Thanks! Great information!

I just don’t want to spend energy reading or responding to certain folks/attitudes (not worth it), so I appreciate your input and advice!

You are on the correct path, IMO. All discussion groups have a way of ignoring threads or users. Nothing wrong with using a feature of the software.

 

[steelyman]

I think using the “ignore” feature is an appropriate thing to do if it will make the website a more pleasant place for you.

 

[MRG]

Even if you ignore users, you can still use the "View Post" option to see an individual post. I use this a lot, as a reminder that this person probably has gotten under my skin before, and that I'm choosing to view the post anyway but don't want to let it get to me. It can slow down thread reading but it's a good filter for me. It usually keeps me from responding, especially negatively, and if I think I'm not in the mood to read a post where the style or content is likely to irk me, I don't view it.

You can also choose to not see threads from people you've ignored. I wish these two functions were split. There are at least 2 people I can think of who either just start too many threads that I just don't care to see at all, but I don't mind seeing their posts in other threads at all. It also means that I won't see threads from people I've otherwise chosen to put on my ignore list. There is a way in the control panel to see threads I've ignored, but I rarely remember to check. It's also annoying in that it shows the oldest ones first. Maybe that could be flipped? Admins? https://www.early-retirement.org/forums/cis_manage_threads.php is the page I'm talking about, I'd like to see newest first, not oldest.

That's exactly how I use the feature.

Yeah, I read the post but I know from past experiences this user has a history of getting a little wonky with me and I don't like to play the wonky game. Perhaps it's my perception but ok, it is mine.

In 5.5 years I think there are two posters on my "beware list".

 

[Montecfo]

I agree that the mods do a fantastic job. I think this board is rather civil, and I like it that way. I do not personally use the ignore feature, at least not yet. Generally, I would like to think that I could learn something from anyone. Lot of smart people there.

But yes, a few are probably a bit cranky from time to time. If it is all the time, that's a different matter. But I just skip past them if they are not attempting to inform or persuade.

 

[Midpack]

When I first joined many years ago I had 8 people on ignore. All of them left (or got flicked by Mods?) long ago. I can’t think of too many people here who are consistently “demeaning.” And I expect and welcome different POVs, so I don’t have an issue with “biased.” I’ve had a few posts of my own I regretted later so...

The Mods here do a great job year in and year out, thanks ladies and gents!

 

[steelyman]

Midpack and I were cheerleaders for the illustrious Class of 2011 (I was assistant cheerleader).

I recall getting very ill as I approached my Big Day and asking to take a break. No problem, very appreciated!

e-r.org is fortunate to have gained a great membership.

p.s. I was a moderator for about 47 seconds. It’s a hard job, so respect is in order (and a thanks)

 

[street]

I have one here that brings the worst out in me. LOL I have a hard time keeping my thoughts to myself when a know it all, my way or no way bully has their way with people.

It gets me in trouble and I regret it, there has been a few remarks I have made because of that type of responses. I have paid the price for those mistakes in the past. I don't use ignore because that persons opinion has a value and I respect that opinion. It is when it is the only way or no way that I need to stop reading. LOL

I really do respect the people here and their knowledge without them and their advise I really wouldn't have had the knowledge to retire. I thank you all for that and the mods that do a tremendous job. This is a top notch run site IMO.

 

[imoldernu]

I have one here that brings the worst out in me. LOL I have a hard time keeping my thoughts to myself when a know it all, my way or no way bully has their way with people.

I'll try to tone it down...

 

[ExFlyBoy5]

I'll try to tone it down...

If any users here have you on "ignore", they should be taken to the town square and flogged, or at the very least BANNED from ER.org

 

[street]

I'll try to tone it down...

Not you SIR! LOL
I love your posts you have been there and done it. Thanks.

 

[Car-Guy]

If any users here have you on "ignore", they should be taken to the town square and flogged, or at the very least BANNED from ER.org

+1 or maybe that is even worth a +2

 

[Amethyst]

In my 10 years on this forum, only one poster ever managed to push what few "buttons" I have, while adding zero value to my reading. Sometimes, a little irritation is a price to pay for a stranger's valuable insights.

I think the mods manage to disappear a lot of posts before I ever see them.

 

[travelover]

When I first joined many years ago I had 8 people on ignore. All of them left (or got flicked by Mods?) long ago. ...........

My experience, too. Most people worthy of ignoring don't stick around very long, anyway

 

[HI Bill]

..sensitive people might not do well here because we're not mean, but we sure are opinionated.

On FB this week, I managed to get myself sworn at and called an idiot by a FAMILY MEMBER because I pointed out a fallacy in their political hot-potatoe post! I stopped following that family member. Those who don't want to listen to reason, or discuss things, but rather want to reiterate their point of view with no rational evaluation, are not worth taking the time to listen to, IMHO.

 

[scrabbler1]

I have put only 2 posters on Ignore and in both cases it was temporary. I know one of them stopped posting 4 years ago, and the other I don't remember the poster's name but I know I haven't seen anything from him/her in years.


It takes a lot for me to Ignore a poster.

 

[Tiger8693]

I appreciate everyones opinions on whether "ignoring" others is beneficial, or somehow shows a lack of open thought. For me, it's just avoiding what I want to avoid. To each his own, and thankfully we all can exercise our own opinion, and decisions on using the forum tools.

I also appreciate those that have sent positive private messages.

 

[Chuckanut]

So far I have not ignored anybody. At times I do have to remember that it is not necessary to respond to every comment, even those that may directly attack one.

 

[Car-Guy]

The devil made me do it so I had to try to "ignore" one of the moderators. No one specifically, just the first mod I found on line.


Surprise, it won't let me do that.

 

[Gumby]

The devil made me do it so I had to try to "ignore" one of the moderators. No one specifically, just the first mod I found on line.


Surprise, it won't let me do that.

And we can't ignore you either.

 

[Car-Guy]

And we can't ignore you either.

Super, now I know at least a few are seeing my post!

 

[Gumby]

Actually, I wouldn't ignore anyone, even if I could. I don't always agree with people, but they almost always make me think. There are many intelligent, thoughtful and funny members here, and I enjoy reading what they post.

 

[Car-Guy]

Actually, I wouldn't ignore anyone, even if I could. I don't always agree with people, but they almost always make me think. There are many intelligent, thoughtful and funny members here, and I enjoy reading what they post.

I agree with everything you said "except maybe thoughtful in some cases". Some can get PO'd pretty easy. I personally don't have anyone in my ignore list and never have. Even for those I strongly disagree with on a regular basis, I'll still read what they have to say. Albeit, speed read in some cases. And I've had my POV changed or adjusted by some posters comments.