Like others said, what did you save it for if not to use it? The point shouldn’t have been to sacrifice up until retirement then have so much you have to learn how to spend! I saved and invested and work as long as Inhave for specific reasons. Too late now, I guess for the OP. Everyone choses their own comfort level and what is worth what to you as you age. We did what we wanted, traveled comfortably, lived and bought what we basically felt was “us”. I’ve never wanted multiple homes that are 5000sq ft, a boat or horses. I worked longer than I “had” to in order to live the same way I wanted before and after I retire. If I wanted to travel cheap and live in a 1500sqft home, I could have retired at 50. When I was living that lifestyle, I knew it wasn’t what I wanted so I continued on to increase both income and savings. We COULD have remained living that way and saved maybe $5m. But that made no sense to not enjoy now so I would have that much later.
When I was in my 20s & 30s, saving for retirement was sort of an imaginary goal. It went along with saving for an emergency fund and buying what you could afford. But once in my 40s, there was a lifetime retirement income goal and housing expectations which morphed over time. When I reached them, I realized that my naïveté set my standards lower than needed, so I revised them to a better but not extravagant level IMHO, and now that we are there, I’m just OMYing it to nail down a bit more insurance. We don’t eat big or drink wine, or drive luxury cars. But I do love my Porsches, ( but never buy them new), but she does like a new car every 5 years, and business class travel is worth it to us, so it will not be hard to spend $7-8k/mo on average and as long as my income easily exceeds that without having to reduce principal significantly, then we figure we are good. We only get to go around once.
