skyking1
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
@MarieIG, that made me giggle.DW's - ahem, personal maintenance may be more than yours. If you try to send her to a new hairdresser, your life may be in danger.
I do the opposite with my DW. She spends so little on herself and has said for years she was going to quit going to Marco.
" no honey you keep seeing him. "
I know what it means to her.
OP, I hope you come back and take in the good advice above. Don't despair. Take in on a little at a time.