I categorize my spending in MoneyDance. Here's what it says I spent in 2017.
Automobile $40954
Taxes $16674
Hobby $8705
Healthcare $6465
Groceries $5340
Travel $4942
Bills $4847
Dining Out $4491
Household $2790
Gifts $2170
Pet Care $2114
Charitable Donations $1350
Housing $1288
Fees $618
Clothing $482
Personal $411
Leisure $92
Miscellaneous $72
Safe Deposit Box $56
Total $103K. That's mostly for one person, but most of the dining and travel expenses are for two. The big spends this year were $37K for a new car (need + want), over $5K for new camera gear (want), and $1K unexpected furnace repair (need).
Categories are a little loose. Since I've been retired for 4 years most everything could be categorized as "Leisure"
(that category is mostly books).
Compared to 2016: I spent $59K last year, which was a more typical year. Last year I had $5K in emergency home repairs (vs $1K this year), twice the hobby spending this year than last, more on gifts this year (nephew's wedding), more vet bills this year than last, and I didn't buy a new car with cash last year. Everything else is roughly the same, with slight bumps for inflation and perhaps a bit of lifestyle creep.
Compared to when I was working: I spend way less on taxes, way more on healthcare and hobby, way less on gasoline, more on groceries, less on dining out (I used to eat out for lunch every day, now it's maybe 2 days a week). Everything else is roughly the same.