I never have anxiety or sleepless nights about anything. I would expect, if I have the proof and discuss it with them, that the IRS lawyers will recommend giving up. ... .
Trust me (and others in this thread), your expectations do not match reality.
I related some of my story a while back, a simple typo in the EIN of the final 1031's for my MIL/FIL. IRS cashed the small checks that were due (~ $200 total), but they didn't get credited to the right accounts, so the IRS says we didn't pay.
When I realized the issue, I tried calling to get it straightened out. So
I had the proof, the correct EIN docs, the cashed checks. But "
discuss it with them" was not so simple. Hours and hours on the phone for days and days. Can't get through. The taxpayer assistance groups had voicemail/answering machines that were full, I couldn't leave a message.
The only contact info was that phone #. It took weeks and many days/hours on hold. Sometimes, after getting the message for several hours,
"hold on, you will be handled in the order received", I'd hear another beep, I figure "I'm in!", but no, the message is "
All agents are busy, call again later - click".
Then I start getting the letters that they will freeze my accounts, and I'm in the process of buying/selling homes, I don't need any more complications. When I finally get through, they just refer to those as 'scare' letters. Well, it worked - a threatening letter from the IRS is scray. I don't care if someone says it's a long process before they do anything, I don't need that, especially when I can't get anyone to talk to to resolve it.
After that, I still had to try to get through several more times to get it straightened out (which it appears to be, but who knows?).
Last year, years after his final 1031, we received a 1099-INT from IL for the interest on some lost property that we recovered from FIL estate, so now we had to claim that as income. So now I have to file again, OK, all done. A few weeks ago, I get an IRS letter - Oh no! They claim I didn't sign the 1031! What the heck, I have scans of everything I sent them, including a picture of the forms and addressed/stamped envelope all together, so I know the signed copy went into the envelope - they are all signed!
So now I have to wait to see if my response satisfies them. So yes, I cringe when I see an envelope from the IRS.
It's easy to say "don't worry" if you've never had to deal with them in this way. It's a real pain, and anxiety maker.
-ERD50