In the blink of an eye, everything changes. Another reminder that we are not guaranteed tomorrow...
BIL has died suddenly. He woke up, ate breakfast, took his dog for a walk, came back home and told MIL (with whom he lived with) he was going to rest in his room. At noon MIL makes lunch and goes on with her activities, but them notices around 2PM he did not come out for lunch. Checks his room and finds him lying on the floor. Calls paramedics but they are unable to revive him. Gone at 54.
So... now DW and I will be traveling to Florida for his funeral. As much as we do not want to go there at this time... DW was the only sibling he got along with, and it took him having a stroke several years ago for them to get back into communication. After the stroke he apologized to me for his past behavior towards me, and our relationship improved a lot, a reason why he wanted me in his wedding. Though MIL essentially supported him, he did a lot for her around the house. This is the 2nd child MIL has seen die, and she needs the support now.
We will do our best to be safe. I am not concerned flying or in a rental car. MIL is 88 and is still in good physical shape; she and BIL also took precautions and other than his fiancee no one else came into the home. Still, we will be staying in a nearby hotel. My concern is with the rest of the family. If DW goes there by herself and has to deal with them it will stress her out and put her in he hospital or jail. His fiancee wants to have some of her relatives and church friends at the funeral, and that concerns me. So I am hoping to be the mask and social distance voice of reason... but will be fine with staying at the hotel as much as possible if things do not look right.