Did you make/change plans for grandchildren? (& update on No House Sale for You!)

[Bestwifeever]

We were quite "old" when we got them so we raised our kids to be independent. ....

In short, I can't see us ever moving "for our kids or grandkids" although we will help them if we are able. YMMV

We told our kids, who are quite independent, not to make their life decisions based on what they thought we wanted--one moved away, one moved closer to us. Both have little kids now and we try to spend equal hours with them (a few days at a time every six weeks to ten weeks with the distant ones, a few hours at a time every ten days or so with the nearby ones). No way would we move, even part-time, to be closer to the distant ones, and not sure they'd want us to.