Meadbh said:Divorce = messy and expensive
Getting married in the first place = risk taking
Staying single = risk mitigation
You choose!
GMueller said:Has anyone else attempted to estimate how much their divorce(s) set them back in terms of achieving ER?
Outtahere said:I have a friend that is not happy at home, for the past three years he's been talking about leaving. I sat down with him one day and showed him just how much it was going to cost him if he left, he decided it's not so bad at home and he's going to stay. He also agreed to marriage counseling.
I think that marrying someone who's starting at the same place you are, and staying married to them, enables the two of you to do in 20 years what might take one of you 40 years.GMueller said:Has anyone else attempted to estimate how much their divorce(s) set them back in terms of achieving ER?
... if you give me a few hours i could give you the exact number for the short-term set-back ... wasn't cheap, but sure was worth every penny. nonetheless, and more to the point, i expect my net worth is considerably greater than it would otherwise have been. the "divestment" was a good investment ... financially and otherwise. 'tis an ill wind that blows no good.Has anyone else attempted to estimate how much their divorce(s) set them back
GMueller said:I began this poll because I was curious what effect divorce had on reaching ER. The results tend to show what I suspected, i.e., that divorce makes achieving ER more difficult. However, the results do contain one surprise, at least for me. I was surprised to find that the vast majority of responders who claimed a net worth of $1M or more, reached that milestone by age 55. There were very few who claimed to have achieved at net worth of $1M after age 55. I believe that the conventional wisdom is that net worth tends to increase, at least until the mid-60's. It appears that the responders were "early achievers," with very few "late achievers" among this group. I'm not sure what to make of this, if anything, but it is an interesting observation.
GMueller said:I began this poll because I was curious what effect divorce had on reaching ER. The results tend to show what I suspected, i.e., that divorce makes achieving ER more difficult. However, the results do contain one surprise, at least for me. I was surprised to find that the vast majority of responders who claimed a net worth of $1M or more, reached that milestone by age 55. There were very few who claimed to have achieved at net worth of $1M after age 55. I believe that the conventional wisdom is that net worth tends to increase, at least until the mid-60's. It appears that the responders were "early achievers," with very few "late achievers" among this group. I'm not sure what to make of this, if anything, but it is an interesting observation.
astromeria said:I don't think these results show that divorce make FIRE more difficult.
A little more than 1/3 of poll participants have divorced. Although that's a lower rate of divorce than the national average, it's actually a little higher than the national divorce rate of college graduates. That tells me that, overall, divorce has no effect on ability of educated, motivated, above-average earners to FIRE. Or maybe that's what I want to see
Workwayless said:I agree with you, astromeria. In my case, divorce didn't make FIRE more difficult. In fact it was just the opposite: divorce made FIRE possible.
Khan said:Marriage and divorce is best done early to get it out of your system and have time to recover financially.
Mr._johngalt said:Ditto.
JG
Mr._johngalt said:Good poll. I'm hanging out there all by myself, as usual.
JG
JonnyM said:Nope, not this time JG, in fact DW and I could each qualify for the bottom spot on the chart "independently"