I understand your frustration.
Personally I've learned a lot from those guys and gals overthere but I also think this forum is excellent too. Honestly, I follow just a few users at BH: Nisiprius, Livesoft, Willthrill81 and retired jg. I think they're great and informative.
Best,
Among my faves as well, but I'll also add vineviz to that list. He sometimes disappears for a few months at a time but always comes back..
Cheers