athena53
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I see this kind of arguments many times and I don't understand why giving money to children so that they don't have to work or work hard is a problem, if the parents can afford.
Especially on this forum, people talk about retire early, would it be the best if a person retires at the birth, i.e., does not have to work for any day, if the parents have money to support this person to do anything he/she wants?
It's a balancing act. You've seen many posts here from people who retire and then are at loose ends because they genuinely loved what they did and a large part of their self-image and motivation were tied to careers. I think everyone needs as sense of purpose and some of that comes from finding work you enjoy. There's also a benefit to "earning" your own way.
My BIL and SIL are rich. REALLY rich. Their son learned to drive on their twin Mercedes-Benzes, they had a floor-through in a prewar building across the street from the Plaza Athenee in NYC and a magnificent house on a private beach at the NJ shore (Mantoloking). He was the quintessential preppie but somehow was driven to work hard. Undergrad degree in English, went to work for a publishing company, then got an MBA at Georgetown and now works for a bank. I'm sure his parents helped him buy the house in CT and he has no student loans, but they didn't hand him everything, either.
I do think family money would be good for a kid who wants to enter the clergy, be a social worker, or become an expert in Egyptian hieroglyphics, but I'd want them to work at something that gives them a reason for getting out of bed in the morning.